Friday, September 4, 2009

Getting In Touch - Deep Meaning and Commitment

Its been a while since I have been in touch on this blog since I have been running around like a manic and trying to build some business opportunities. The cool thing about this summer and some of the great break throughs I have had personally is that I am working now well within my means as a human being and operating completely within the confines of my overall unique persona. What I mean by this is that I am operating at a level of high integrity. I say this because one of the key commitments in my book " The Ten Commitments to a Better Life" was to get to know more about yourself and operate within the limits of your own personal integrity.

I have a lot to be thankful for especially now that I no longer " BS" myself. This was one of things I did not like about the other guy. He tended to live within a dream world of what he wanted rather than operating in a world that is complete.

I say this because in order to be complete and totally in integrity you need to operate at a specific level of having truth in everything you do. You cannot get to a high level of integrity if you continue to operate in the " bullshit " zone. This zone is one where you have not made amends to your past. You are still replaying the poor me movie.

The second thing is getting rid of tolerations. Major tolerations that continually take you directions that are not of your choosing. A key one is doing things with or for people you don't want to do only to please them. This happens a lot with high maintenance friends, parents, siblings, clients or other people that take your life as their own. They steal your time, your energy and your emotions.

The third key focus is knowing where you fit it. Knowing what level of skill you have, what you can bring to the party that is meaningful by using and sharing your knowledge. Its no longer about strutting your ego in situations, but making meaningful contributions to helping to make the world a better place.

How you do that is totally up to how you operate. Do you speak truths in a meaningful way? Do you help others willingly? Do you appreciate what you have.

Writing this blog and few others help me to discuss things with myself and I continually grow through this discussion. I really don't care if anyone reads it, however I am always amazed that I am found in the blogosphere and get comments on various things continuously. So I know it works. The universe is listening, listening to everything I say and do. If I give it misguided or the wrong messages I get the results that are intended regardless.

So being in integrity is kind of like riding a bike. Once you get there its easy to say what you mean and say what you want. You then commit to having the life you want. Everyone can receive the gifts they desire.

Once you are in integrity the world finds you. Isn't that funny. "Once you are in integrity the world finds you."

Kensel Tracy is The Marketing Coach and is a Senior Partner with the Corporate Coachworkz a coaching and business development company that helps small, medium and large sized business to grow and prosper.